by Jamil Zaki

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I’ve studied empathy for the last two decades. As scientists define it, empathy is the ability to share, understand, and care for others’ experiences. But how do non-scientists define this term? Over the years, I’ve asked thousands of people what they think empathy is and gotten hundreds of replies. One definition stands out the undisputed champion, nominated by far more people than any other: “walking a mile in someone else’s shoes.”

Psychologists call this “perspective-taking,” and they’ve shown that it can be a powerful tool. Research finds that when people project themselves into the lives of others, they grow more generous and less prejudiced toward them. Seeing myself in you, I might treat you better.

Via Edwin Rutsch